Ok, here's my last take on TP and then i hope the TP stuff should be done for me....hehe. We are going to have people come here from TP and spy and go back and bash but who cares? We can't stop them. The only thing that would bother me is if someone from TP would make me look like i was bashing someone here when i wasn't. And if i suddenly bash someone, please ask me in case this happens......lol. I don't care if they call me names, sticks and stones. I don't care if they spy and i don't care if they just come to see what is up. I love it here and i hate seeing innocent people upset because we are starting to become a TP bashing and gossip site. They don't want a truce, so what. Remember what mom's always said....."ignore them and they will go away" I admit, i enjoyed all the gossip and i have no problem reading it all and playing along a little but people here are getting really upset and i hate that. I would hate for members here to end up leaving just because we can't get around the TP problem. JMO but i think if we dropped the TP subject as much as we can ( i know there will still be some talking about it) then if they come to spy, all they will see is us talking about our pets and lives....not them....and they will leave us alone. I don't know for sure but i hope so. I hope this didn't upset anyone but i just needed to say it. If it did, sorry I joined TP after i joined here to see what was all the fuss and to see if they had any good advice and all i got was ignored. I figure that is a good thing to do to them too. Who agrees? If we don't, i have a bad feeling we will lose some good people K....just had to say it.
Wonderful perspective oasis...I agree with you...I too was pretty much ignored on TP in the begining...they had a DIFFERENT click in there then...and as hard core as they come... It took months to get responces to posts...but I figure...to heck with them...and post my opinion any way...and on this as any forum...everone is on there best behavior right now...with all the fir flying because of problems i cant comprehend...i can see many people "walking on eggshells" but there will come a time...when everything settles down and problems with TP fade...and I would be willing to bet the same issues will arise here as they do in other places too...when you get such a diverse cross section of people together with a font and room to blab...things happen...and as I mentiond before some thing can be constreued as snottey and away we go...trouble all over again...I think now is the time to learn and practice a valuable lesson learned...
Very well-said, O!! That is what I was trying to say when Mt. St. MollieMae erupted last week, LOL. It's what I've been thinking all along. GOOD JORB!! hehe.
I for one am just sickend by the recent goings on. I really liked that forum until certain people showed their true colors. I guess I would never have had anything to say if I had not posted and formed no opinion. But well *sigh* you know me can't keep my opinion to myself. Cricket now claims I was banned from chat because I was told I could not say whatever I wanted and I said WRONG I can say what I like. She says I cannot say whatever I want in chat. hmmmm yet another showing of favoritisim because seems to me that everyone else in her lil group can say anything they like. I never cussed anyone out or called them filthy names. It is not like I was fighting for the right to be horrid and vulger.
All this drama and you know what amazes me most is that I know Shadowdog is 13 years old and she has more common sense and tact then the whole lot of them. They could take lessons from her on how to treat people.
Shadowdog I have a lot of respect for you and I really hope you stick around and not let anyone or anything drag you into this. Your a sweet kid and besides Gidget would miss you terribly.
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I admit, i enjoyed all the gossip and i have no problem reading it all and playing along a little but people here are getting really upset and i hate that. I would hate for members here to end up leaving just because we can't get around the TP problem. JMO but i think if we dropped the TP subject as much as we can ( i know there will still be some talking about it) then if they come to spy, all they will see is us talking about our pets and lives....not them....and they will leave us alone. I don't know for sure but i hope so. I hope this didn't upset anyone but i just needed to say it. If it did, sorry
I joined TP after i joined here to see what was all the fuss and to see if they had any good advice and all i got was ignored. I figure that is a good thing to do to them too. Who agrees? If we don't, i have a bad feeling we will lose some good people
K....just had to say it.
This too I shall live through.
For like the Phoenix, I shall rise from the ashes and soar through the sky having been reborn. http://pitbulls-dobermans.tripod.com
and i look forward to coming here.
