I am really gonna miss that dog. But I know in my heart I did what was best for him. He is such a sweet dog. Mark is depressed over it but he loved him so much he knows it is better for him to be with her. Other then Manson trying to mate with him I think they wil be best pals. Also they were in the yard together and we do have a female in heat so Manson may have caught her scent. Shiny and Joe are great people and I could tell she was just in love with Shadow. She had a smile from ear to ear. I guess the fact that we turned out to be a stopping point for him was something that was meant to be on his journey through life. Somehow I feel in my heart that he was always ment to be with Shiny and her family. I could tell that he will be loved and cared for.
There truely are some great people on both these fourms and I think that when people sift through all the garbage that a great deal of good can come from it. We all have one thing in common if nothing else and that is we love these animals. I could have refrained from stepping up and taking the risk of taking in a fully grown strange dog, Jazzy could have chosen not to take the leap of faith she did when she drove him down here and Shiny could very well have chose not to deal with me at all. In the end our lives would have gone on but ultimatly Shadow would then have missed out on the perfect home. And there is not telling where he would be now.
Shadow will always hold a speacial place in our hearts. He has definatly impacted the lives he has touched along the way in life in a most profound way.
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I am actually crying. I usually don't get attached so strongly to Rescue dogs because I know going in that they are only with me temporarily. But Shadow hit a soft spot for me. In one way it was hard watching him go but in another it made me happy to know his life will be the best it can be.
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I took in a pug for a short time because she was in a terrible situation. I had to give her to the Ohio Pug Resuce. It was very hard for me to do, but we just couldn't keep her. I was afraid to find her a home myself...she had some serious issues and I didn't want someone to take her then get rid of her or treat her bad. I knew the pug rescue could help her more than I. I miss her alot. I don't think I could do that on a regular basis. I am not that strong. I don't cry easily, but if it has to do with kids or dogs....my heart goes weak!
Good job Pits, it sucks having to go thru the emotional part of letting go. I've not had to do it, but I would be one sappy crier if I did rescue work. I would like to one day. Maybe one at a time. Someday. It would be poodles of course. LOL
Shiny came and got him today? I'm SO glad. I know she'll just love him to pieces, he's such a big goofball. She brought Manson with her? Oh God, I wonder how they're gonna make it back home with those two maniacs in the car?!
Thank you so much pits and Shiny for giving my baby his chance. I love you both!!!
Your welcome Jazzy! She had a divider in the back of the jeep for Shadow. I swear you could tell by the look on her face that she just loves him already! I am having a hard time with this. I know I did right by him but I got soooo attached to him. I thought it would be tough on Mark but I think I am effected by it more then her is. Jazzy if I had it to do all over again I would not change a thing. He truly is in the home he was ment for all along. Now I really know how you felt when you left him here. Gosh this hurts more then I thought it would.
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quote: Originally posted by: jazzy008 "Shiny came and got him today? I'm SO glad. I know she'll just love him to pieces, he's such a big goofball. She brought Manson with her? Oh God, I wonder how they're gonna make it back home with those two maniacs in the car?! Thank you so much pits and Shiny for giving my baby his chance. I love you both!!!"
P and D, I'm glad everything worked out. It always seems hard to let them go. When we turned our Rat Terrier in to the rescue, it was very hard to walk away.
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I know. I should have known it would not be easy. I just really was caught off guard I never expected he would sneek up on my heart that way. but I still have no regrets. I love him too much to second guess what I know to be the right decision.
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OMGosh!!! Shiney ! He looks so happy!!! LoL I cracked up and Manson humping him lol. Too funny. How is he doing?
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They take turns humping each other over and over. Hopefully soon they will figure out who's going to be dominant so that some of the humpfest will lessen! He's doing great. I kept him and Manson separate for most of the day, because with the loud way they play, I was afraid they were fighting or about to. But it turns out they are just really dramatic. They have been playing loudly for about an hour now and both are happy and healthy. They're finally starting to slow down a bit and get water here and there.
He is a great big ox isn't he? LOL but soooooo lovable. I am glad things are going well with him.
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Yesterday I took Shadow with me to my friend's house where a bunch of us were doing yardwork. (well I wasn't doing yardwork but my husband and some of the guys were) He was such a pleasure to have around and everybody thinks he's a really great dog-- and they're right!
We spent the night there and when we got home I discovered the hard way that he and Manson are NOT going to be the best of friends. They had been doing the humping thing and I had hoped that they would figure out who's who and get along. NOPE. They got into a fight and nobody was here but myself, my young kids, and my 80 year old grandfather. Manson didn't have a collar on so as soon as I would get them apart for a second, he would just run right back and latch on.This was not fun. They both have some small injuries but thankfully nothing serious. My friend came and got her dog that I was dog-sitting yesterday, so keeping these 2 separated will not be too tough at all. I'd rather they got along, but such is life...
sorry to hear that. since there wasnt much injury it may be a dominance spat. Maybe try muzzeling them both for a while when they are together. Also ummm how do I say this? A human female during her "busy days of the month" can cause two males to get into a tiff. So nuff said about that. Shadow is desperately in need of being neuterd. He would have been going shortly if still here. Perhaps the neutering of at least one would help the situation. I know that Rusty never bothers with lil bear because he is neuterd. Male dogs can tell if another male is neuterd or not.
They looked like they were doing so well together. Um try giving them both a bath maybe they each stil have the scent of Gidget from here. Shadow especially. Maybe that is part of the whole drama? I mean shadow was here and laying around the front yard maybe he has Gidgets scent on him??
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