I have really enjoyed posting here until today. i regrettedly asked to view the over 17 pages and got access to the terrific pets pages as well only to find that im not really liked here. I dont really understand why and hinestly it makes my heart ache. i found it odd when i first joned and was questioned relentlessly about my pup pals and how i found the forum but at least now i know why i was questioned. the weird thing is some of you talk about how people are treated at the terrific pets forum but yet some of you have done the same thing to me just where i couldnt see it. i wish i had never asked for access to the other forum pages because it hurts to see such awful things written about you. the saying killing them with kindness hurts far worse than you can imagine because i thougt your kindness was sincere. well thanks again to those who were genuinely nice to me.
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I think quite a few people who joined amid lots of arguing between forums were treated with suspicion when they first joined. Now, you have been posting a while, people are familiar and comfortable with you, and the whole argument between the two forums is also over. I enjoy reading your posts and seeing your dogs too. I'd take it with a grain of salt.
i agree with shiney, it was kind of bad timing and amidst a big mess. it looks like things are back to normal and i also enjoy your post. i think everyone on here likes you. i thought about leaving here myself at one time because i didnt really feel welcome. i know there is a couple on here that still make me feel that way just by the way they ignore my post or have some smart remark to make. i just let it go, lifes too short. there is enough nice people on here to keep me here . i hope you can put the past in the past and stay. i know i can speak for most people that you would be missed !
Jas, at the time you joined people here were paranoid of everyone. Anyone new joined people here thought they were spy's. The fighting between the two forums is over. I do not have access to the TP folder so I have no clue what was said about you. I choose not to have access to it. Let all of what was said run right off your back, you've been here long enough that we all know your not a "spy" or whatever and if you are oh well, I enjoy your posts!
Oh Jas- don't leave. It was probably me that said something and I apologize. I was full of paranoia...Now I could really care less. Please don't leave!!!! I'm sorry if it was a post from me.
I don't have access to the other folders either, but I was never suspicious or critical of any of your posts. It makes me feel bad when someone gets their feelings hurt, though. Why not p.m. the people making the negative remarks and ask them to explain themselves. It was more than likely been a big misunderstanding.
The slate has been officially wiped clean, remember, and everyone is starting anew. Hope you stick around.
I know that I was really curious at first becuase I didn't believe the google thing. Because I have tried to find the site but couldn't find it without putting in the name or someones screen name. But I honestly believe you when you said you misspelled forum. I am sorry and I hope you stay.
I have really enjoyed posting here until today. i regrettedly asked to view the over 17 pages and got access to the terrific pets pages as well
Well, this is my fault. I couldn't remember which folder you wanted access to so I granted access to both. I then PM'd you and said that if you didn't want access to both then I would remove you from one. This is the very reason I have to ask everyone to request access to both if they want in both. Otherwise, the temptation to go into the other is more overwhelming than the desire of not wanting to see it.
If you ask access for one and I give you both (and you don't want to see the other one) then don't view the one you didn't ask to go in. Just let me know that you didn't ask for it and I will remove you.
I'm sorry this happened. I haven't been on much and I've had several things to catch up on when I do log on. If someone asks for access then I grant it right then, but sometimes I can't grant it if they don't have a TC username. This was the case with Jas. When this happens I have to wait for them to get my PM, go sign up at TC, PM me back with their username, and then wait for me to log on to get their name. This could span out over a couple of days since I am not on much. In order to keep people from waiting, if I couldn't remember which one they wanted access to then I just granted for both so that they wouldn't have to wait for me to PM them and ask which folder they wanted to see and then wait for that reply. It's hard to remember who wants what so I just did what I thought was best......and it wasn't the best decision here.
Jas, if I remember correctly, the suspicions started with you when you said you found this place in Google. You can't find us in Google by searching for anything other than the actual name of The Furum. There was alot that went on prior to you coming here and as someone else said, it was just bad timing.
I firmly believe that everyone is past their suspicions now and had welcomed you as a regular member. If you knew the history of this place you'd understand better, but I wont bore you with it.
It is your decision to make. You can leave or you can stay. You are welcomed here whether you feel that way or not.......and you were not the only one who was 'treated' this way. Many new members were. Thats just the way it is sometimes.
I have removed your name from the use of that folder and I apologize for my mistake in granting you access since you didn't ask for it. I believe the posts you are referring to were written some time ago - back when you first joined. Alot has changed since then.
Sorry you want to leave JAS but i agree with the others that you unfortuneately came at a bad time. We all got to know you and like you so please stay. I'm sure we all have had things bad said about us but we keep sticking with it....we are crazy....lol I hope you decide to stick too.
Hi Ansy! I just wanted to say that I found this place by google as well. I had heard your forum mentioned several times on TP, but never saw the link to it (I think if it got posted, then it got deleted). I was curious about the forum because of what was going on and all, and tried to find it, so since all I had to go off of was 'furum', I typed "Dog furum" in google and it was the 3rd link down (my dumb bum didn't even think to try 'thefurum', I just knew furum was in the title somewhere). Maybe that's what happened with Jas as well? Just thought I would share since I found it the same way
-- Edited by HunterNellasmom at 00:44, 2005-06-13
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Thank you everyone for your replys I honestly dont want to leave I love it here! i am very addicted to this place! I just feel so bad about the things that were said about me. I understand now why it was so off to you guys for me to be a new member and then all of a sudden I am pup pals with members from Tp but I swear i didnt know them I jsut accepted their requests. they had to have come here and saw my post and then asked me to be pup pals. which is very odd now that i think about it. anyways if you guys want me to stay and feel you can trust me than i would like to stick around.
Just wanted to post this it is a search results for pet websites
The Furum! - The internets newest and most up to date pet site! Be sure to check out our forum.....um......furum! Space The Internet Lost and Found - Free ... www.puppysites.com/miscellaneous.shtml - 43k - Cached - Similar pages
-- Edited by Jas at 01:06, 2005-06-13
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My dear. I live for your posts. I do not chat or go into areas where the supervision is less. I have little free time. I am sorry if you were abused. I hope that you have a lot to talk about, because I am very happy to have new input!