Sadly, I feel the need to ban yat another member - HuronBreeze. I am sorry to have to do this, but I can't allow the members here to be subjected to venemous attacks like this person was posting.
I was also forwarded some PM's in which she made comments that were extremely mean (about certain members here). She evidently tried to sway another member to leave here via the PM feature because we are all "psychotic and neurotic" and "caught up in the web" (not the internet web mind you).
Reasons for banning:
You will be banned if:
You continually break the rules of this forum
She was notified of Strike 2 and continued. Strike 3 and you're out. Again, i'm sorry I had to resort to this but felt there was no other choice.
Regardless of what others have to say, I know that it pains you to have to ban someone, Ansy. This is something that does not come easy for you. You are very fair and give everyone the benefit of the doubt and more than enough chances.
Huronbreeze and I had actually started respecting each other's opinion even though they were different. I truthfully did not want to see her banned, but she knew the rules. And it appears she made her choice.
I wanted to clarify (for huronbreeze herself and any others who may have questions) that huron was NOT banned for carrying on a friendship/relationship with Lalayla or anyone else. She was banned for breaking the rules of this forum - name calling. That has been a rule from day one.
She got her first warning some time ago, her 2nd today and on the 3rd - you get no warning.
If anyone would like, I will gladly go back and pull the posts from her which led to her banning and post them here.
The rules apply to huron here, just like everyone else. I'm sorry that she feels she should have been given special consideration here, but that just doesn't happen.
If anyone thinks I am using scare tactics to keep you here or get you to leave TP, then please address it with me or voluntarily leave. I have never and will never ask anything remotely close to that from anyone here. The comments I posted from CM were just that - comments she made. Take them for what they are worth.
I'm sorry TF members are being subjected to all of this. Two bannings in a week is out of the ordinary here and I just wanted to let you all discuss it and 'get it out'.
What alot of you don't know is that I face a constant daily battle against these people in email, forum messages, and PM's. It never stops. However, this place is here to stay and it isn't going anywhere. Alot has been kept off of this board and it will continue to be kept off. I would be ashamed for some of you to be subjected to some of it.
I want you all to know that I sincerely appreciate all of your kind words and support that I have gotten privately from you. After their latest round of jealousy and hate, I needed those words. Sometimes I ask myself why I subject myself to this everyday and then I come here and see the fun photo contests and other posts that we make to learn more about each other and I am reminded of why I do it.
You all are my internet family and I'm proud to be able to associate with each and every one of you.
I was worried about the comment about people who were members here being banned over there. I really hope I won't be banned just for being a member on another forum. Especially since when I joined, it was during a truce when I thought everyone was getting along finally. I just wish everything would go back to how it was a few weeks ago. Wishful thinking huh?
I'm still confused about what is totally going on and how this all started again. But I hope everything gets worked out for the people involved.
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well the mods here are fair heck they even edit Ansy well proto did in the past lol. Miss proto thats for sure too. Anyway I think Ansy is way more fair then she is expected to be. The strike two at the bottom of your post was clear the warning was clear it apparently made no difference to her. Oh well rules are rules.
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Ansy I know from experince here I know you don't like to ban people but some of us appericate (sorry about spelling) doing what you do. You help keep the forum nice and fun to be a member of. Thank you.