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ZoeandTucker


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I thought the migraines were gone but their not.  I am going to make an appt. to get a bioenergetic test done to see if this lady can find something.  http://www.advance-nutrition.com/pages/bioenergetic.html Somebody has got to be able to find something to get rid of these headaches.  This is ridiculous.  The migraine is gone now but I still have the after effects which will drag on for at least 2 days. 


Now another complaint.  My husband.  He just wears me out when I'm sick.  I hate being sick on the weekends or anytime he's home.  I feel like he's making me feel guilty.  Yesterday with this migraine I couldn't function.  I know some of you on here have/had them.  Anyway I finally managed to crawl myself out of bed and get up with the kids yesterday morning.  It wasn't a headache yesterday morning.  I just had the eye thing going on.  Anyway after breakfast I sent the kids upstairs to play.  I was being nice about it and I said be quiet because your daddy is still sleeping.  Well, they got noisy so I peeled myself up off of the couch, by this time the eye squiggly is almost gone and I have a dull headache.  Well, Gillian is upstairs only in her diaper because they were playing dress-up but once Gillian got her clothes off she decided she didn't want to put anymore on.  It was way to cold here for that so I made her put her clothes and socks back on.  Kaitlyn was wearing a long sleeve dress up dress and she had on a pair of boots so I decided she was fine and I went to lay back down.  From the bed DJ is saying she can't wear dress up clothes its too cold.  I thought to myself, I can't deal with this anymore so if you want her to put her clothes back on you get out of bed and come do it.  Well, he does and than he makes me feel guilty for it.  "I have to get up early everyday of the week and go to work."  I usually say something back but by this time I have a full blown migraine and I can't speak so I just thought to myself, "I get up an hour earlier than you every morning to feed and walk the dogs and than when I get home you're leaving and I have to start taking care of the kids on top of the dogs."  I know I wanted the dogs so that is my responisbility but its just the fact that he acts like I lay in bed half of the day.  I know he works hard and he does leave the house everyday but guess what?  I work hard too.  I take care of 6 dogs, and 2 kids, and a huge house.  I couldn't ask for 6 better dogs or 2 better kids.  If the only one out of those that cause me problems is Zoe I'm thankful.    Anyway, I couldn't rest or relax yesterday.  Everytime Gillian would ask for juice he would act like he was all mad at me for not getting it.  Maybe he wasn't but thats what I got from the tone of his voice.  If the dogs would want outside he would complain because he had to get up and let them out.  Heaven forbid he miss a second of his football.  I heard him on the phone with a friend of ours in and out of sleep yesterday and I could tell she was giving him the "Well now you know how she feels everyday" speech.  Anyway the point is I just hate the fact that I feel like this when I'm sick.  Why can't I just go upstairs away from everything and rest?  Why do I have to stay downstairs in case someone needs me?  Why do I feel guilty when I need help from DJ with the kids and dogs for a day?  But more importantly why does he make me feel guilty for needing his help?  Sorry guys.  I just needed to compain.



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i'm the same..when you are an independant person used to coping one your own it can be tough to ask for a helping hand.. i am not working so michaels wages are suppourting us all. i hate it because i am used to earning my way in the world but i had to stop work as it was making me very ill and he gave me the o.k to quit but there are still odd times when he will throw it all back in my face in the heat of the moment.


Some men dont realise how hard it is to run a household ..they leave for work have a laugh with friends etc and come home thinking you have had the magic fairys around to do all the housework and numerous other things whilst you have your feet up on the sofa eating chocolates and sipping wine...little do they know how much work it takes to keep a house and in your case kids and dogs running like clockwork..i really feel for ya. Michael doesnt realise how much there is to do even though its a 2 bedroom house..he only notices when he is on holiday at home and is asked to help out. I feel guilty asking michael to cut the lawn (as i do it all the time) hell i even picked up a drill and put a curtain pole up so that he wouldnt have to do it as he works..did i get any thanks ..nope


 



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OMG!!!! That sounds just like my house. I htink its just a man thing. They act like they do so much during the day that when they finally get home all they want to do is eat and sleep. Then Brad acts like me staying home all day with Kaitlyn and the dog is just so stress free.


I ended up with a really bad headache on Friday afternoon. All I wanted to do was curl up on the couch and not move. Well, he decides to go to the gym and when he gets home he wanted me to cook. So of course I cook. And when my head hurts bad the smell of food makes me sicker. I went to bed shortly after that and everytime Brad had to do something for Kaitlyn he would mumble under his breath because he was busy watching TV.


Then on to Saturday. Woke up with the same headache. It finally went away in the afternoon. But as soon as I was feeling better everytime Kaitlyn needed anything I had to do it because he took care of her for 7 hours. LOL!!!! Poor Brad.......I could go on and on about this subject but I will spare y'all.



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I knew everyone could sympathize with me on this.  I know its all men.  Thats why I decided to complain about it.  The thing that makes me angrier is not that DJ does these things, because I know he will, its the fact that I let him make me feel guilty about it.  Why can't I just ignore him and go get the rest I need when I'm sick and realize that my kids and dogs will all be alive and healthy when I wake up.  Okay, maybe all but Zoe. 

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There was a reality show not long ago with the men taking on the womens role for a week.  Those men were soooooooooo happy and appreciative of their women by the end of the week.


  Those eye squigglys you get, I think I get those, but only a few times out of the year. I had my eyes checked and the doc said I had 20-20, and they were called eye migrains.  They don't hurt though.



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I could go on and on agreeing with you and telling you my own lil stories lol..but that would take forever so Im just going to agree with you..ALL men are like that..and i sympathize with you..hopefully you feel better

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I swear you just discribed a day at my house when I have a miagraine. My hubby does the same damn thing Drives Me Nuts!!! Finally about 3 weeks ago he got his FIRST miagraine! I was sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo Happy! He now knows what I go through when I have one. Maybe thats what your hubby needs!


Good Luck!



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