I was on this board tonight..and decided to go to chat room to see if there was anyone to chat with..There was Jawlaws and P&D...
they both attacked me verbally and then I was booted out of the chat room...This is how mature people react..I wasnt the one with the band wagon on P&D..Persoanlly I think she is guilty as sin...but I dont care..It doesnt affect me..But getting booted from a local chat and berated every time I post is uncalled for..And some here talk about cliques..a terriorist team is alive on this board...and frankly I want to know what can be done about it..I didnt start any thing,...I had an opinion just like anyone else who visits here...Please some one answer this..It might affect others down the line too...I thought this was the forum of the free..to post what ever topic and all that stuff..so far it hasnt been for me...some one explain./..
I think there is nothing wrong with someone else having their own opinion. As long as no bashing is involved. It is ok to agree to disagree and move onto another subject. Its not right to gang up on someone just because they don't have the same beliefs and whatnot. Things lately in my veiw are needing to be treaded lightly on.
I did not call any one names..I came on..seeing who was on..it would have been rude to just click off..so i said hello..I was jumped on..and jawlaw send me a whisper they thought was going to P& D but came to me..it said to ignor me..i said did u intend this to come to me..or to her...but it showed up on the board..i didnt do the whisper right..any way..I had to defend myself and why i came there..i said because i could..and that was basically it..i saw collie mom come on..said hello to her..and was booted..then banned..I didnt call them any thing..I could not copy the post or i would have posted it..and if they do..I dont believe it will be the right one..not one they doctored..II cant beielve just because you have opinions other then theirs it should be grounds to ban...isnt that what these Poster children of banning seem to claim...Im confused..whos runing the assillum
Huron- I am not going to argue with you, but you came on with the intention of starting a fight. You called pits and I the "biggest troublemakers" and continued to harrass us both so I just kicked you out until you calmed down. You can get back on shortly.
I don't go to chat rooms there is just too many problems lately. I don't want to be in any cliques. Sooner or later, one will have issues and you would have to either put up or shut up basically, so if anyone ever wants to know why I'm not there, its to avoid problems. What is this whisper thing anyway. Maybe chat should be dismantled.
JMO...whispering is juvenile. If you're going to be in the chat room, CHAT, no matter who is there. If you can't say something in front of someone else, leave and take it to PM or a phone call or whatever. If your conversation is private, why are you having it in a public chat room?
Jaw...I wasn't commenting on whether or not it was used in this situation. I wasn't there so I can't say. Just my opinion on the use of whisper in general
Huron, I know you have had some issues happen that made you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps approaching those issues with the words "biggest troublemakers" was not the way to go. Something along the lines of "I know we have some issues between us and I'd like to find out what can be done to resolve it" would have been a better approach.
I've seen you make some very nice posts, I know you can do it. As I always say in my real life, "Don't let your anger towards someone make you turn out to be the bad guy". I don't always live by it, but I try.
You are more than welcome to address any issues, respectively, on this forum if you think it will help. The moderators do not so what is best for 'them', they do what is best for 'The Furum'. Even I have been edited here. Sometimes we just get carried away.
May I suggest trying a different approach to find out what the true issue is here? NO one here hates you, and I don't want anyone to feel singled out. If you feel that way, the best way to handle it is to discuss it with those who make you feel that way. You have the options of the forum, PM, and chat (shortly) to be able to do that. Your posts and input to this forum is appreciated a great deal. Thats why we all need to work to resolve any issues we may have with another. If a resolution can't be found, sometimes we just have to agree to dis-agree.
I dont have to calm down...I was upset..but i didnt do what some have done..ie threats and so on...Yelling and ranting and raving isnt my style..you two ganged up on me..plain and simple..I went in there because i have nothing to hide..i could have clicked off..but i decided to stay..i figured you would ignor me..but Jawlaw sent a whisper to P&D...who before that had said hi to me..and a sentence or two..then after the whisper it began..The whisper was supose to go to P&D to ignor me..but it showed up on the board instead. I dont have to defend my self to Jawlaw...They dont pay my bills...I come to this site beccause I can..which is what I said in chat too...I was called a trouble maker and I said and I dont deny calling them BOTH trouble makers..but I was called it first..and I was having two people gang up on me..not 1...how sad...they could have pm'ed or idnored me or a number of things if they dont want to talk..but to bann some one...in a place that so many people speak out about banning is quite ironic i think...power does go to ones head...Now..I have to say..The only one who does this is Jawlaw..no one else has treated me badly..And I appreciate it and have not disrespected anyone in this or any forum...So..why am i singled out...will you be next???
Huron, I know you have had some issues happen that made you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps approaching those issues with the words "biggest troublemakers" was not the way to go. Something along the lines of "I know we have some issues between us and I'd like to find out what can be done to resolve it" would have been a better approach.I shouldnt have to defend myself EVERYTIME i come to this board...I thought thats what this forum was about..But it is not so...i didnt get the chance to say what you suggested..i was banned..I know Ansy..you find it hard to believe that JAWLAW would do some thing in there best intrest..I DIDNT DO ANYTHING>>>or Say any thing...And I wish i could have copied that chat..and if Jawlaw has copied it..it will be doctored..I WOULD BET THE FARM!!!!I started with Hello..and it went all down hill from there...They could have ignored me or continued PMing each other...but decided I was fair game to attack..not very neigborly is it???
I've seen you make some very nice posts, I know you can do it. As I always say in my real life, "Don't let your anger towards someone make you turn out to be the bad guy". I don't always live by it, but I try.YOU KNOW I CAN DO WHAT>>>BE NICE,...sure..but if im attacked by 2 people I can and have to defend myself too...waht an I expected to do..say nothing..P&D sure had center stage enought o blow her mouth off..why cant I say my opinions..ones which were NEVER edited for name calling or nasty words or being mean I might ad. IM not the bad guy here...that place is reserved...
You are more than welcome to address any issues, respectively, on this forum if you think it will help. The moderators do not so what is best for 'them', they do what is best for 'The Furum'. Even I have been edited here. Sometimes we just get carried away. I DIDNT GET CARRIED AWAY>>.I was tore apart..and then banned before i could say any thing...pretty cowardly i might add...
May I suggest trying a different approach to find out what the true issue is here? NO one here hates you, and I don't want anyone to feel singled out. If you feel that way, the best way to handle it is to discuss it with those who make you feel that way. You have the options of the forum, PM, and chat (shortly) to be able to do that. Your posts and input to this forum is appreciated a great deal. Thats why we all need to work to resolve any issues we may have with another. If a resolution can't be found, sometimes we just have to agree to dis-agree.
I came into a chat room with 2 people...and I was banned..not my favorite people..but I dont care..i went any way..Just because I can..or I thought i could..until JAWLAW decided I was to be the whipping boy for the whole P&D mess...THATS UNFAIR!!!I dont care if they ignored me..but I was attacked..and I want everyone who had an aposing point of view here to see the truth...I dont have to make nice to these people..I really dont..I did nothing..i stood up for P&D several times..and I stood up for principle when Jawlaw made blanket staments.,.so..it is my right to have opinions..so...I hope everyone sees some thing here..It doesnt matter what is said..it is who you are..Sounds like what they complained about on another site to me..And why do I have to be the one to resolve this issue...Jawlaw resolved it for me...
"I came into a chat room with 2 people...and I was banned..not my favorite people..but I dont care..i went any way..Just because I can.."
You came in there insisted I was guilty and called me and the chat moderator names and your are upset because you were temporarily Banned? Unbelievable!
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You came in there insisted I was guilty and called me and the chat moderator names and your are upset because you were temporarily Banned? Unbelievable
Sorry..you can fabricate it all you want,..I said hello..and was blasted..I said HERE on the board..I said I thought you were guilty as sin..not in chat.,.I called you two the biggest trouble makers First because i was called it first..and second..I call it like I see it...YOU ARE!!!!!We all no you are P&D>>.We all know it...Except your cronies...and they will drop you too...sooner or later...you get banned from everywhere...You will show the true colors...But Until then..State the TRUTH>>if you can stomach it..if is with in your power to do it I mean...Everyone else might feel the need to handle you with kid gloves..I for one do not...I call it like I see it..So..if you have no truth to tell...good nite...
edited to remove the first line--contained notably nasty implied name calling --protodog
For the love of chocolate- enough already.... I apologized. The ban lasts an hour. Obviously this person is not going to stop posting, but if we quit commenting, maybe it won't be quite as fun..