Well, i did what everyone suggested, and I went right to his "ex". It was perfect actually, cause i was on my way over to hang out with him (i was going to get her number from him then) and i saw her...she too was on her way over there. I asked her how things were going with them, and said "it's nice that even though you're not together anymore you can still be friends" and she was like " what are you talking about?" so i told her......man was she ever pissed off. But wait....it gets even better, cause we both went over there to give him hell....well we go up to his room, and he's in there with some other girl.....there was lots of yelling. and needless to say, him and his gf broke up, the other girl slapped him across the face and i told him he was an a-hole. I was mad for a bit, but we're still friends...kinda. I just don't trust him at all. and he knows it too! And i found out also...the only reason his friend said anything was cause he liked me.....bleh. But forget the two of them, cause i'm seeing someone else now. I know it seems soon after this whole incident...but the guy i'm dating now, i've known him for a long time, and liked him for a while too.
I lived this exact scenario way back! Me and another girl realized games were being played behind our backs....got together, got angry together, then went to see him....we both told him to drop dead, then he continued to see us both (yes, we were both stupid!)...but then I joined the navy, then her married her.....and now years later they are divorced! Saw him recently and he asked me out! HA! I said "AH....yeah, I don't think so! I have a man!" lol
Stick with your new guy...you know him better. Hopefully, he will treat you like you deserve! Good luck.
Oh that would have been fun to watch him suffer that one! Bet he was hating life at that moment. But right now he's prolly plotting his next move for one of you. Guys like that never change!
I would have loved to be a fly on that wall, myself!! Hope he's damn sorry he did that to you girls!! Some men are just trash. And I mean that in every sense of the word. If a girl does it, she's a slut but if a guy does it, he's king. He's a slut!!
I agree Mollie.....and i told him that the other day to! lol. i've talked to him a couple of times since the whole incident..and he seems like he feels pretty bad about it, but meh. whats done is done. i told him strictly friends.....and if i ever catch him doing that to any future gf's i'll be the first to go and tell them...and the first to beat him. but things are going great with my new bf....him and i get along great...and when we were younger we both liked each other too, lol. all of my family likes him, and vice versa, so it's nice. whereas with the other guy most ppl didn't think i should have even given him a chance. i'm not even mad anymore...just a little bothered that he would do that to me considering we're friends, but meh.
lol.....meh is now my new word!!!!!!!! so come on ppl, share your stories about lying cheating guys too! or girls! that way i don't feel so left out ;)