Today I went to the cemetary to visit my Moms grave I was walking around to differnet peoples graves that I know,as I headed back to my car something told me to walk way across to sections to the crypts.Well I was walking ,looking down and I seen and name Lottie,I thought to myself thats weird, someones else named Lottie (Lottie is a old friend That I had lost contact with) to me it's a unusual name.Well as I kept walking I looked down again and seen my friend Lottie's picture.I nearly fainted She died Febuary 8 of this year.I have no clue what happened.I had seen Lottie about 8 months ago when my Dad had his house up for sale,she had started selling real estate and had came to show it one day when I was there. I want to call her husband ,but really don't know what to say.I just can't believe it, I came home crying and looked up her obit online and it didn't give a clue to what happened, it did say her wish was for everyone to be happy and healthy,so that made me think she knew she was dying,maybe cancer.IM so bummed.
wow, sorry to hear that Shadow. Maybe you can call her husband when you are ready. That sure is a hard way to find out that someone you care about is gone.
Wow, that is really strange you saw that! I 'm sorry you had to find out that way. My grandma (very close to) and great grandma died within 18 months of each other and that was definitely enough for me.
That was a tough way to find out. When the shock has passed you could give her husband a call or if you are uncomfortable with that you could send him a sympathy card with a little note in it.
I've had alot of friends die that I have gone to HS with. Sucks! A few from Drug OD's some from car accidents and some killed. I guess that just comes with this day and age.
Thanks everyone for your kind words.Im still shocked,I went back out there today ,just had to see here headstone again.Yesterday when I seen it I just took off running and crying.I got a card today to send to her family. Puttin,my local newpaper is online too and you can look up past and present obituraries. For instant I can look up my Mom's who passed away almost 2 years ago.