Well, i'm waiting for the check to return to me (my bank sent it to me) and i will call her bank and see if they can hold her funds until this is resolved.  Not sure if they will but we will see.  I don't want to splatter her name yet since she owes me so much money still but i will....lol

Here's the next drama:

I get a call from the corporate offices of my bank asking if i tried to withdraw $4000.00 with my debit card a couple days ago.  I was like "NO....i don't even have that much".  They said someone attempted to withdraw that amount but put in an incorrect pin number.  They have now canceled my debit card and are sending me a new one and Brad has to go into the bank tomorrow to change his pin number.  Weird thing is, i hardly ever use my debit card and when i do, i usually use it as credit.  It never ends......

Hi Oasis,

Since we talked lastnight I know I mentioned the scam emails I was getting from ebay. Yours was definitely legit? I got several emails in the past month saying the same thing to me but none were legit just losers trying to get my information. I reported them to ebay. Ebay will never send you an email telling you anything about your account. Since I am not sure how they contacted you or what happened in your situation I'll just assume that is not how it happened with you. Since you talked to live chat. I post this so others on ebay know NEVER EVER respond to an ebay email. Unless ofcourse you just bid on something.

Nikki

Paige- I have NO idea how someone would have gotten my debit card number.  I don't use it very much.  It shocked me!

Nikki- This is the email i got from ebay:

Dear rdubbe01,

Due to recent activity, including possible unauthorized listings, we have temporarily suspended activity on your account in order to allow us to investigate this matter further. If you believe that this action may have been taken in error, or, if you feel that your account may have been tampered with, please contact our Live Help team so that we can provide additional information and work with you to resolve this issue.

You can reach the Account Theft Live Help team by taking the following steps:

- Click on the "Security Center" link at the bottom of most eBay pages.
- Click on the "eBay Account Protection" link in the eBay Marketplace section, within the Online Security Resources box.
- This will take you to the help page entitled Securing Your Account and Reporting Account Theft.
- Scroll down the help page to the section entitled Contacting eBay.
- Click on the "Live help" link.

Once you have clicked on the "Live Help" link, you will be prompted to enter a chat name or email address along with a topic related to your reason for contacting eBay. After you have entered this information, the next available representative will assist you.

In the event that you are unable to contact eBay through Live Help after taking these steps, respond directly to this message to request assistance. We will contact you by email after we have received your response.

Please allow at least 72 hours for an email reply. Emailing us prior to receiving our reply will result in an additional delay. In order to handle your concern as quickly and efficiently as possible, we encourage you to contact us through Live Help if you are able to do so.

If you received this notice and you are not the authorized account holder, please be aware that it is in violation of eBay policy to represent oneself as another eBay user. Such action may also be in violation of local, national, and/or international law. eBay is committed to assist law enforcement with any inquiries related to attempts to misappropriate personal information with the intent to commit fraud or theft. Information will be provided at the request of law enforcement agencies to ensure that perpetrators are prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

Regards,

Safeharbor Department
eBay Inc.