i have been in and out of counseling with sarah and i took her to planned parenthood when she was 13. they put her on birth control and gave her an array of condoms . and she goes off and on for check-ups. i told her i was against her having sex but if she was .she needed to ALWAYS  use condems. we were contacted recently from the health department that sarah needed to call them immediatly. we had no way to get ahold of her because when she calls she blocks the number. well on one of her calls, she informed quinn that she has a pelvic desease and also gonnorhea. and she didnt know who she got it from because she didnt use the condems with anyone ! she called around 10.00 last night and quinn spent over an hour talking to her.and he told her about james wrecking his car and the young girl that was with him had died and how that could of been her. her comment was "oh well" and i was listening on the other line as she wont talk to me at all. as she thinks its all my fault that her mom abandoned her. i finally got tired of hearing her trying to set rules on our household, and told her .SAME RULES APPLY SARAH ! AND IF YOU CANT ABIDE BY THEM, HAVE A GOOD LIFE !. i felt bad afterward, but she will NOT live in my home and do what she's been doing. tough love is a hard act to follow, but in this case i have to stick to my guns. i love her and i sound cold toward her but enough is enough and i am done playing the game. .......game over !