IF I HAD MY LIFE TO LIVE OVER - by Erma Bombeck (written after she found out she was dying from cancer). I would have gone to bed when I was sick instead of pretending the earth would go into a holding pattern if I weren't there for the day. I would have burned the pink candle sculpted like a rose before it melted in storage. I would have talked less and listened more. I would have invited friends over to dinner even if the carpet was stained, or the sofa faded. I would have eaten the popcorn in the 'good' living room and worried much less about the dirt when someone wanted to light a fire in the fireplace. I would have taken the time to listen to my grandfather ramble about his youth. I would have shared more of the responsibility carried by my husband. I would never have insisted the car windows be rolled up on a summer day because my hair had just been teased and sprayed. I would have sat on the lawn with my grass stains. I would have cried and laughed less while watching television and more while watching life. I would never have bought anything just because it was practical, wouldn't show soil, or was guaranteed to last a lifetime. Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle.
When my kids kissed me impetuously, I would never have said, "Later. Now go get washed up for dinner." There would have been more "I love you's." More "I'm sorry's." But mostly, given another shot at life, I would seize every minute...look at it and really see it . live it and never give it back. Stop sweating the small stuff. Don't worry about who doesn't like! you, who has more, or who's doing what. Instead, let's cherish the relationships we have with those who do love us. Let's think about what God HAS blessed us with. And what we are doing each day to promote ourselves mentally, physically, emotionally. I hope you all have a blessed day.
That made me cry. Especially this one: Instead of wishing away nine months of pregnancy, I'd have cherished every moment and realized that the wonderment growing inside me was the only chance in life to assist God in a miracle. I hate being pregnant. I always wish that away. Next time, since I've read that, I'm going to try not to.
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Saving just one dog won't save the world, but it surely will change the world for that one dog. -Richard C. Call
Thats a great Poem. Ive read it before, but it still touches me each time. I am one of those weird people that LOVED being pregnant! Its really a miracle, and i just loved knowing that there was a little person growing inside me. I chearished every moment with each of my 3.
My theory on housework is, if the item doesn't multiply, smell, catch fire, or block the refrigerator door, let it be. No one else cares. Why should you? Erma Bombeck
I wish that were my theory. I stress myself out over housework. What happens if something is on the floor and the baby gets choked? What happens if somebody eats something their not supposed to? Just what if....? Is the way I live my life. Maybe thats what causes my migraines? So stressful.
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Saving just one dog won't save the world, but it surely will change the world for that one dog. -Richard C. Call
I hired one when I was pregnant with Kaitlyn. She made me mad because she didn't do it the way I wanted it done. I'm not that picky, she was just really bad at housecleaning. I've never given anyone else a chance. I have that mentality that nobody can do it better than me.
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Saving just one dog won't save the world, but it surely will change the world for that one dog. -Richard C. Call
Find someone else Z & T. I was the same way...and after trying out different people I finally found a maid I love. It is the best $150.00 I spend. My house is spotless with minor cleanup in between. I can have family and friends over on a moments notice and hubby and I spend the weekends doing theses we love instead of things we hate (i.e. washing, scrubbing, scouring). Life is too short. It took 4 days in the hospital with an unknown illness to make me realize that. Now I worry less, spend more time with friends, and I've been much happier.