I posted but I had a rough time each time I pushed the submit button. So as I explained in my post either you get a post or there will be nothing.
I did lurk for a long time and lurk on a lot of other boards, I really shouldn't say lurk I just read to see what help I can get.
As I told Barnabbus the reason I posted now is because I know exactly what he is going through and usually I have nothing to offer since everyone everywhere seems so much more knowledgeable than I in pet info.